I was beginning to worry. I hadn't seen her at school in a few days. "I hope she's okay." I verbalized to Lily. She's probably fine, she's a young kid, they get sick, she'll be back soon. I thought to myself. But that didn't keep me from wondering if something else was going on. Did her parents forget to pay her tuition? Did they kick her out? My thoughts traced back to the first words Ming had ever told me about her. "Her mom doesn't care about her." My stomach turned and twisted. I could only hope and pray that I would see her today, and put my worries to rest.
All teacher's have their favorites. I should know, I was usually one of them. And now that I am a teacher it's so hard not too. Some kids just steal your heart, and there is nothing that you can do to stop them. Now don't get me wrong, I love all my students, and each one as a special place in my heart, but there's just something about Samantha*. She isn't the cutest girl at our school, nor the smartest, or most well behaved. But I can't help but love her. There was nothing about Samantha that would in and of itself draw me to her. Kinda like there is nothing about Karina that draws the Father to love her. He just does. I just do. After we had been at school for a few weeks Ming asked us if we had "adopted" any of the children as our own. Samantha was my "daughter" and she was soon referred to as such amongst Terri, Lily, Ming and myself.
One of my first memories of her was holding her during on of my first morning assemblies. Lily told me, that she didn't like it when people held her, but there she was, in my arms, giving me the most beautiful smile and my heart melted.
So, here I am on Tuesday morning, being somewhat attentive to the morning meeting and I see her bus pull up. I see other students from her neighborhood trickle out and walk pass the meeting room. And I catch a glimpse of her, my heart has momentary peace. As soon as the meeting is over I rush to where I think she might be. But I can not find her. I reluctantly head to my Tuesday morning post, the Kindergarten gate, where I greet students as they enter the schoolhouse and tickle and talk to a few. It's 8:00, time to go to the morning assembly where we sing the national anthem, and pray a prayer of blessing for the day, and do a few exercises. I approach the line where Samantha's class is. She sees me and runs into my arms, begging to be picked up. But she looks differently. There is a huge scar right under her eye. It looks like an iron was pressed against her face. Her eye is puffy, and she still has little morning crusties on her eyelash. My heart shatters into a million pieces. I ask her, with my limited Thai, "what happened"? She doesn't answer. She is content just being held. and I don't want to let her go; but. alas, there is another tug at my skirt and now another little girl wants to be picked up. I put Samantha back into her line, pick up the girl for two seconds, and then pick Samantha up again. I just want her to know that she is loved. I want to know what happened. Did she have an accident, did someone intentionally scar her? She won't reply. I kiss her face and send her off to class.
At lunch, I asked Lily if she had noticed Samantha's scar this morning. She had, (how could she not), and she said that Samantha wouldn't tell her what happened either. Maybe her mother, or whoever did that to her, told her not to tell anyone what happened, I think to myself. Maybe, Karina, you've seen to many stories, and have read to many books about abuse. If you've learned anything the past few weeks you should know not to jump to conclusions. With that thought I go to the office and pray. I pray that God would use me in whatever way to show Samantha how much she is loved. Through tears I tell Him, that no matter how hard it may be, I will do whatever He is asking me to do. I don't know what that looks like. I don't know if it looks like anything. All I know is that this afternoon, when I saw her, I picked her up and told her in Thai that I loved her. And her response was, "Mai chai" (essentially, not true). I told her again and again that I did. But she didn't believe me. It wasn't the first time that I had spoken those words to her. The first time I told her, she replied, "I love you" and actually did the sign language for it. I can't help but wonder if because of whatever happened, she feels like she is unlovable. I pray and cry myself to sleep.
*Due to the sensitivity of the matter the name has been changed obviously, Samantha is not a Thai name. :)